Rethinking Valentines Day: More Than Just Romance

For More Than Just Romance Valentine’s Day. For some, it’s a time of romantic dinners, flowers, and handwritten love notes. But for others, it’s a day that can feel lonely, disappointing, or even unnecessary. If you’re not in a relationship, it might seem like a...

It’s Never Too Late: How to “Do-Over” a Conversation Gone Bad

Wishing you’d said something different? Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling uneasy, replaying it over & over in your mind? Maybe you said something you didn’t mean, froze up, or just didn’t come across the way you wanted to. Maybe you held back...

Grace or Enabling? (The 1 Thing That Makes all the Difference)

The entire Christian faith is built on the concepts of grace, mercy and forgiveness. Therefore, if we’re followers of Christ, we strive to emulate Him.  In addition to these “big three”, we’re also called to love unconditionally, speak the truth in love, and to...

Why Other People’s Opinions Matter

There’s an old psychology term that’s being used in a new way recently: “Insinuation Anxiety” Insinuation Anxiety: noun A worry that not agreeing with someone’s choices implies criticism of how they are managing pandemic life. — Counseling Today (November 2020)...

Badly Behaved

Years ago, I fell in love with a dog named Hunter while volunteering at a local animal shelter.  This stud that had been rescued from a puppy mill had never been outside the dark shack he’d lived in for three years.  Suddenly the bright lights, running water and...